Anniversary gifts for her: 60 ideas for your wife or girlfriend

1. A book of your love story, with her as one of the two main characters.
2. A long handwritten letter about the moment you knew.
3. A star map of the night you met or married.
4. Your vows framed side by side.
5. A necklace engraved with the coordinates of where you met.
6. A jar of 52 notes, one to open each week.
7. A photo book of your year, captioned in your own words.
8. Her wedding bouquet preserved or pressed and framed.
9. A recording of you reading a letter, or a song you wrote.
10. Letters from the kids, collected in a keepsake box.
11. A custom illustration of your home, your street or your first apartment.
12. A video of friends and family sharing a memory of the two of you.

A love story book is written from the memories you share in a guided conversation, never from invented facts. You read a free first page before paying and review every chapter before approving it. It costs $35 digital, $69 as a hardcover or $95 as a Prestige hardcover, printed and shipped within the United States.

1. A silk pillowcase and a good sleep mask.
2. A cashmere sweater or wrap in her favorite color.
3. A spa day, with the childcare handled.
4. The perfume she wore when you met, or a new one chosen together.
5. A luxury candle and a bath set for a quiet evening.
6. A soft robe and slippers she would never buy herself.
7. A flower subscription for the months ahead.
8. A beautiful leather bag for work or travel.
9. A favorite author's new hardcover, signed if possible.
10. A massage gun or a professional massage.
11. A good chocolate tasting box.
12. A weekly breakfast in bed for a month, promised in a card.

1. A weekend away she does not have to plan.
2. A recreated first date, down to the same order.
3. A cooking class from the cuisine of your honeymoon.
4. Concert or theater tickets for the artist she loves.
5. A pottery, painting or flower-arranging class for two.
6. A wine tasting at a vineyard.
7. A dance class to relearn your wedding dance.
8. A picnic where you got engaged.
9. A night at a hotel in your own city.
10. A sunrise hike to a view she loves.
11. A day of doing exactly what she wants, planned by you.
12. A vow renewal, small and private.

• 1st, paper: a letter, a star map, a book of your first year; see our paper anniversary gift ideas.
• 2nd, cotton: good sheets, a cotton robe, a quilt with your date.
• 3rd, leather: a leather bag, a journal, a jewelry roll.
• 5th, wood: a wooden jewelry box, a tree planted for her; see our 5 year anniversary gift ideas.
• 10th, tin or diamond: a tin music box, diamond studs with a letter; see our 10 year anniversary gift ideas.
• 15th, crystal: an engraved crystal vase and her favorite flowers.
• 20th, china or platinum: a hand-painted plate, a platinum band.
• 25th, silver: a silver charm bracelet, 25 letters; see our 25th anniversary gift ideas.
• 40th, ruby: a ruby pendant, forty red roses; see our 40th anniversary gift ideas.
• 50th, gold: a gold locket, a family celebration, a book of your fifty years.

Every year from 1 to 60 is in our anniversary gifts by year.

For a dating anniversary, choose something that shows you remember the beginning: the place, the song, the first message.

1. A framed screenshot of your first conversation.
2. A bouquet of the flowers from your first date, if there were any, or her favorite ones.
3. A necklace with the date you met.
4. Tickets to something you will do together next month.
5. A playlist of your first year, with a note for each song.
6. A short digital book of your story, to read together on the evening itself.

• You make every ordinary day feel like the best part of my life. Happy anniversary.
• I still remember what you wore the night we met. I will remember tonight too.
• Thank you for the laughter, the patience and the last slice you always leave me.
• If I had to do it all again, I would find you sooner.

Find 100 more messages, including 15 for a wife, in our anniversary wishes.

These are estimates, not guaranteed dates. If the anniversary is very close, give the digital edition ($35) on the day, or a card announcing the book with its first page printed out, and let the hardcover follow. Prices: $35 digital, $69 hardcover, $95 Prestige hardcover, paid once, US shipping included, sales tax calculated at checkout (pricing).